What is your typical response to a parent whose young child (Lets say 0-3 years old) dies? Do you give assurance that their child is saved and in heaven? If so, what basis do you have to give this assurance? Would your response be different if the parents were believers verses unbelievers? Please give some verses you would use to help the parent and support your views.

I am interested in hearing your responses on this subject. I know there will be different responses from those who hold to covenant theology verse those who hold to another system. I am interested in those differences and how they are defended.