Walk in Wisdom

    At all times and before all people, the believer's conversation, conduct, and attitude ought to be glorifying to God and in keeping with the principles of holiness and grace! But especially should we be careful and cautious in the presence of young Christians and unbelievers lest we give offense and mislead them. “Walk in wisdom toward them that are without (non-Christians), redeeming the time (making the most of every opportunity to point them to the Redeemer).

    “Let your conversation be always with grace, seasoned with salt” (Col. 4:5-6). Be careful not to flaunt your liberty in the presence of one who will not understand and may be offended without saying as much. I'm sure you wish to let them know that you are human, a regular fellow, and that you are desirous to identify with them as much as possible. But “let not your good be evil spoken of” by one who is still bound by traditions, customs, and human righteousness. Curb your light-heartedness, dispense with too much idle talk, and never give the impression that you are not much burdened for their spiritual welfare. You may reply, “But I must be myself; I must speak what I feel and enjoy my freedom in Christ.” You have opportunity enough to be yourself around mature members of the body of Christ (in a way that will edify and encourage them in the walk of faith); but walk in wisdom, restraint, and in a demonstration of piety and seriousness toward men who either do not know Christ or who are just now showing an interest in the gospel. You brought your children up delicately and carefully; be as sensitive with God's babes and little children.