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Nicholas Lovins

Despair in the Hands of God

Nicholas Lovins 6 min read
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Nicholas Lovins
Nicholas Lovins 6 min read
15 articles

Lovins examines Psalm 22 as a meditation on faith amid despair, demonstrating how David's lament—marked by vivid descriptions of abandonment, physical agony, and spiritual isolation—ultimately culminates in confident trust in God's sovereignty and deliverance. The author emphasizes that Christ's quotation of this psalm on the cross ("My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?") connects the psalmist's suffering to redemptive history, revealing that even in the darkest circumstances, believers can anchor themselves in God's character and control. For those facing present trials—whether financial hardship, loss, illness, or death—Lovins argues that divine providence ensures suffering serves God's purposes and that believers experience genuine strength and victory through intimate communion with their unchanging God.

What does the Bible say about despair?

The Bible acknowledges despair as a common human experience, yet emphasizes God's continual presence and faithfulness, even in our darkest moments.

The Bible addresses the reality of despair through various figures, notably David in Psalm 22, who expresses profound anguish and a feeling of abandonment. However, David’s cry is not devoid of faith; he appeals to God as his Holy One and Defender, indicating that even in his despair, he trusts in God’s sovereignty and care. This duality of feeling lost yet rooted in faith is a key aspect of the biblical understanding of despair.

Moreover, Jesus quotes this Psalm while on the cross, highlighting that He, too, experienced despair and abandonment for our sake. This connection reinforces the idea that while despair is painful and often overwhelming, it does not mean that God is absent. In fact, God's presence is most profoundly felt when we cry out to Him, as He promises to be our refuge and strength in times of trouble.

Psalm 22, Matthew 27:46

How do we know God's sovereignty is true?

God's sovereignty is affirmed throughout Scripture, revealing His rule and control over all creation, including human affairs and even our suffering.

The sovereignty of God is a foundational tenet of Reformed theology, articulated in various passages that illustrate His supreme authority over everything. From creation (Genesis 1:1) to redemption (Ephesians 1:11), Scripture portrays God as the sovereign ruler who orchestrates all events according to His purpose. This includes the suffering and pain we experience; they are not random but are permitted by God for His glory and our ultimate good. Romans 8:28 emphasizes this, stating that all things work together for good for those who love Him.

Furthermore, the narrative of Christ’s crucifixion exemplifies God’s sovereignty in the face of human sin and suffering. What was intended for evil was transformed into the greatest good through the resurrection. Hence, God's sovereignty is not just a doctrine to be affirmed intellectually; it is a comfort and assurance in life's trials, reminding us that even in despair, God is in control and working out His redemptive plan.

Genesis 1:1, Ephesians 1:11, Romans 8:28

Why is understanding God's presence important for Christians?

Understanding God's presence is crucial as it assures believers that they are never alone, especially in times of trouble and despair.

For Christians, the awareness of God's presence is foundational to their faith journey. It provides comfort during trials, reminding them that God hears their cries and is actively involved in their lives. In Psalm 22, for example, David expresses his feelings of despair but also his firm belief in God’s faithfulness. This connection offers a model for believers; even amid suffering, they can call out to God with the assurance that He is their refuge.

Additionally, recognizing God's omnipresence assures believers that they can invite Him into every aspect of their lives, cultivating a deepened relationship and reliance on Him. This is echoed in the New Testament, where Jesus promises never to leave nor forsake His followers (Hebrews 13:5). Hence, this understanding shapes how Christians approach challenges, encouraging them to seek God's help and guidance rather than succumb to feelings of isolation and despair.

Psalm 22, Hebrews 13:5

      "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? 
      Why are you so far from saving me, from the words of my groaning?
      O my God, I cry by day, but you do not answer,
      and by night, but I find no rest.
      Yet you are holy,
      enthroned on the praises of Israel.
      In you our fathers trusted;
      they trusted, and you delivered them.
      To you they cried and were rescued;
      in you they trusted and were not put to shame.
      But I am a worm and not a man,
      scorned by mankind and despised by the people.
      All who see me mock me;
      they make mouths at me; they wag their heads;
      “He trusts in the LORD; let him deliver him;
      let him rescue him, for he delights in him!”
      Yet you are he who took me from the womb;
      you made me trust you at my mother’s breasts.
      On you was I cast from my birth,
      and from my mother’s womb you have been my God.
      Be not far from me,
      for trouble is near,
      and there is none to help.
      Many bulls encompass me;
      strong bulls of Bashan surround me;
      they open wide their mouths at me,
      like a ravening and roaring lion.
      I am poured out like water,
      and all my bones are out of joint;
      my heart is like wax;
      it is melted within my breast;
      my strength is dried up like a potsherd,
      and my tongue sticks to my jaws;
      you lay me in the dust of death.
      For dogs encompass me;
      a company of evildoers encircles me;
      they have pierced my hands and feet—
      I can count all my bones—
      they stare and gloat over me;
      they divide my garments among them,
      and for my clothing they cast lots.
      But you, O LORD, do not be far off!
      O you my help, come quickly to my aid!
      Deliver my soul from the sword,
      my precious life from the power of the dog!
      Save me from the mouth of the lion!
      You have rescued me from the horns of the wild oxen!
      I will tell of your name to my brothers;
      in the midst of the congregation I will praise you

      You who fear the LORD, praise him!
      All you offspring of Jacob, glorify him,
      and stand in awe of him, all you offspring of Israel!
      For he has not despised or abhorred
      the affliction of the afflicted,
      and he has not hidden his face from him,
      but has heard, when he cried to him.
      From you comes my praise in the great congregation;
      my vows I will perform before those who fear him.
      The afflicted shall eat and be satisfied;
      those who seek him shall praise the LORD!
      May your hearts live forever!
      All the ends of the earth shall remember
      and turn to the LORD,
      and all the families of the nations
      shall worship before you.
      For kingship belongs to the LORD,
      and he rules over the nations.
      All the prosperous of the earth eat and worship;
      before him shall bow all who go down to the dust,
      even the one who could not keep himself alive.
      Posterity shall serve him;
      it shall be told of the Lord to the coming generation;
      they shall come and proclaim his righteousness to a people yet unborn,
      that he has done it
." (Psalm 22)

 
    How often is this our prayer to God? These words of David ring in the ears of many people who struggle with the difficulties of life. Up until this point in his life David spent many nights on the run, being hunted by King Saul who believed David would usurp him as king. He spent many sleepless nights alone in the wilderness, hiding in caves, roaming the countryside staying just ahead of the men who were coming to kill him. Waking and sleeping he was in constant fear for his life often not knowing where his next meal would come from. On some occasions he knew just how close he had come to death and narrowly escaped. In these moments even the great King of Israel and poet of the Old Testament felt alone and struggled with whether God had left him to die at the hands of his enemies.
 
    Our Lord quotes this Psalm in His time on the cross before all the people standing around Him. They hear His anguished cry of "Eli Eli lama sabachthani" (My God My God, why have you forsaken me?) and immediately know the Psalm. His agony under the wrath of God was excruciating, a greater agony than any man has ever experienced in his life. Being abandoned, scourged, beaten, hanging in the heat of the day struggling to breathe. Thirsty, He tried to get a drink and had vinegar burning his cracked and bleeding lips. His hearers would have heard this song in synagoge since they were children, and they all knew the story of David. They saw the fear and agony and heard the pain in His cry.

    But I call your attention to the finale of our Psalm. Though David cries out in fear and pain, he does so in faith. He cries out to the Righteous One, the Holy One, his Defender and Redeemer. He abolishes his own fear in the face of the Almighty who stands beside him. Hunger, restlessness, even death itself is nothing in the hands of our God. This is echoed in Christ's usage of the Psalm in His crucifixion. It is the prophetic  imagery in David's song, the victorious tones at the close, that the God-man wants to call to our memory.
 
    In their darkest moments, these heroes of the faith knew that God is in control. They call Him 'My God', and know that He has not left them alone. Whether you are struggling to pay bills, wondering where to sleep at night, when your next meal could be, your child or spouse is in pain, or even facing death itself, there is strength to be had in the arms of our Lord. There is purpose in your pain, and the counsel of God secures that our suffering is not in vain or empty. He is our strength and our victory. Our God is never far from each of us when we cry out to Him for rescue. 
 
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