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Tom Harding

Behold What Manner Of Love

1 John 3:1-2
Tom Harding November, 16 2025 Audio
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1 John 3:1-2
Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not.
2 Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is.
3 And every man that hath this hope in him purifieth himself, even as he is pure.

The sermon "Behold What Manner Of Love" by Tom Harding centers on the theme of God's sovereign electing love as revealed in 1 John 3:1-2. Harding highlights the extraordinary nature of the love that God bestows upon believers, emphasizing that it is an undeserved, electing love that qualifies them to be called "sons of God." He draws on various Scriptures such as Galatians 4:4-5 and Romans 8:14 to demonstrate the Trinitarian affirmation of this identity and the relationship it entails. The preacher articulates the practical significance of this doctrine, encouraging believers to recognize their status as adopted children of God and to live out their faith rooted in this identity, thereby realizing the fullness of God's grace throughout their lives.

Key Quotes

“Behold what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called sons of God.”

“We've not earned His love, nor have we sought His love. We love Him because He first loved us.”

“To take a malicious enemy, who has wronged us... and make him our beloved son and adopt him into our family... that’s love worth beholding.”

“If we trust the Lord Jesus Christ for everything in salvation, then the Word of God says we are sons of God.”

What does the Bible say about God's love for us?

The Bible reveals that God's love is a sovereign, electing love bestowed upon us freely.

God's love is described as a powerful, electing love that He freely bestows on His chosen people. Scripture asserts that He loved us even while we were still sinners (Romans 5:8) and that this love is not contingent upon our merit. It is a love that adopts us as His own, making us sons of God (1 John 3:1). This love prompts us to consider the depth and quality of God's affection towards those who do not deserve it, emphasizing His grace and mercy.

1 John 3:1, Romans 5:8

How do we know we are children of God?

We are children of God if we trust in Jesus Christ for our salvation.

The assurance of being children of God is deeply tied to our faith in Jesus Christ. As stated in John 1:12, those who receive and believe in Christ are granted the right to become children of God. This relationship is not based on our merits but is established through faith in His work of salvation. By trusting in Christ's righteousness and His sacrifice, we affirm our identity as sons of God and heirs to His promises, reflecting the glorious truth that we have been adopted into His family.

John 1:12, Romans 8:14

Why is being called a son of God important for Christians?

Being called a son of God signifies our identity, privilege, and relationship with the Father.

The importance of being called a son of God lies in the profound relationship it establishes between believers and God. This title signifies not only our identity as His children but also the privileges that come with that status. It assures us of His love, care, and eternal commitment. Moreover, being sons of God makes us heirs, joint heirs with Christ, which brings great hope and encouragement as we navigate life's challenges. This relationship transforms our understanding of God's nature, as He calls us to a deeper communion with Himself.

Galatians 4:4-5, Romans 8:17

Sermon Transcript

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Today I would like you to turn in your Bible to 1 John chapter 3. 1 John chapter 3. Let's read the first three verses of 1 John chapter 3 verse 1. Behold what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called sons of God. Therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not. Beloved, now are we sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be. But we know that when he When Christ shall appear, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. And every man that hath this hope in him purifies himself even as he is pure."

Now, this scripture, like many other scriptures, calls our attention to the amazing Undisputable fact and glory of God's sovereign electing love toward his church, toward his beloved. We read in scripture, he loved the church and gave himself for it. He's a good shepherd that gave his life for the sheep.

Now notice several things about this first verse. Behold what manner of love. Here we see the quality of this love. Now behold, look at this love. Think about it. Don't merely glance. Add it and go on your way, but stop, rest, and consider. Pry into this secret, study, examine it, and wonder at the glory of it. Behold what manner of love.

Notice the second thing, that the Father hath bestowed upon us. Now, what does the word bestowed mean? It means simply to give. We've not earned His love, nor have we sought His love. We love Him because He first loved us, but rather, God freely loved his people without any cause found in us. That is, we didn't merit or earn or deserve his love. He loved us freely.

Thirdly, notice this, that we should be called. considered, made, adopted, regarded as sons of God. Now listen to me carefully. It's just as much a miracle for a sinner to be made a son of God as it was for the Son of God to be made sin for us, for the Son of God to be made the Son of Man, for the Son of God, the Lord Jesus Christ to be made a substitute for sin when God laid on Him the iniquity of His people. This is a privilege and blessing that exceeds all others that we, us, sinners, guilty that we are. guilty as we are to stand before God and be considered and called and adopted and regarded as sons of God. Behold what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us that we should be called sons of God.

And then he says in verse 2, Beloved, now, right now, God considers believers right now, His chosen, His elect in Christ, Beloved, now are we sons of God. Now, that's an absolute amazing fact and glorious truth. that God would love us, guilty as we are, sinful as we are, and consider us as sons of God.

Now, two things this morning. The first thing is this, the glory and wonder of being called the sons of God. Now you just consider this for a minute. Who calls us sons of God? It says, Behold, what manner of love the Father, the Father, God Almighty, It's one thing for us to call ourselves sons of God, but it's totally another matter for God himself to call us and consider us and regard us as sons of God.

Listen to this scripture in Galatians chapter 4. But when the fullness of time was come, Galatians 4.4, God sent forth his sons, made of a woman, made under the law, to redeem them that were under the law, that we might receive the adoption of sons. And because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of His Son into your hearts, crying, Abba, Father. Wherefore thou art no more a servant, but a son. And if a son, then an heir of God through Christ Jesus." God Almighty, the Father, calls us sons of God. But not only that, the Lord Jesus Christ himself calls his people the sons of God. In Hebrews 2.10 we read, The captain of our salvation is bringing many sons unto glory. The Holy Spirit himself bears witness that we are the sons of God. He says in Romans 8.14, For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. Even the holy angels minister to us as the sons of God.

Sons of God. their ministering spirit sent forth to minister to them who shall be the heirs, the sons of salvation." You see the glory and wonder of this, being called the sons of God, the Father, the whole Trinity, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, even the holy angels call us believers, sons of God.

Secondly is this, what's all involved in calling His people, sons of God, His children. Now look at the manner, the quality and quantity of this love. God Almighty loved us while we were yet sinners, undeserved. We read in Ephesians 2, verse 4 and 5, but God commended, but God who is rich in mercy for His great love wherewith He loved us even when we were dead in sin hath quickened us together with Christ. God Almighty loved us while we were yet sinners. That's what's involved, the manner and the quality and quantity of this love.

His love toward us was electing love. We are bound to give thanks always to God for you, brethren, beloved of the Lord, because God has, from the beginning, chosen us to salvation. This love of God is electing love. It's undeserving love. God loved us when we were sinners. His love toward us was saving love. We read in 1 John 4.10, He earned his love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his son to be the propitiation, the sacrifice, the atoning victim for our sin. His love was electing love, undeserving love. His love toward us was dying love. Having loved his own, he loved them to the end.

Now, you consider, you see what I'm saying about the manner and the quality and quantity of this love? What manner of love is this? Now, you consider this. To take a malicious enemy, who has wronged us, wounded us, defiled us, and make him our beloved son and adopt him into our family and to make him his own. That's love worth beholding. And my friend, that's exactly what God has done for us. God commended his love toward us in that while we were yet sinners, we wronged him, we wounded him, We defiled Him, we killed the Son of God, and yet God commended His love toward us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Something else about this love, this love toward His people, toward His own, is everlasting and infinite. Nothing can separate us from the love of God, which is in the Lord Jesus Christ. He doesn't love us as servants, but as sons. Grace brings us into the family and keeps us there eternally. You see the wonder and the glory of being called the sons of God.

Now consider this thirdly. Who are these people who are called sons of God? Now he mentions two things in the text. Behold what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us that we should be called sons of God. Now, here's the people who he calls sons of God. By nature, we're fallen sons of Adam. By nature, we're children of wrath, even as others. By nature, we're dead in sin, dead in trespasses and in sin, and yet he has taken us from a dunghill of sin, washed us in the blood of the Lord Jesus Christ, and made us to sit at his royal table. How could a holy God love such a vain, frail, sinful, and troubled creature as such as we are. Well, my friend, the reason's not found in us, but the reason's found in him. He loved us simply because he would. Remember what he said in Romans 9? Jacob have I loved, Esau have I hated. And the reason that God loved Jacob and hated Esau is not found in Jacob and Esau. The reason's found in God himself.

What shall we say then? Is there unrighteousness with God? God forbid. For he said to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy. I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. So then, it's not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but it's God that shows mercy."

This causes every believer to sit down and behold this glorious truth. God loving, saving, calling, redeeming his people is indeed amazing grace. You see what John's saying in this text? Behold what manner of love The Father hath bestowed upon us that we, such as we are, that we should be called.

the sons of God. Now look at verse 2. He said, Beloved and now. Beloved now are we sons of God. And it does not yet appear what we shall be, but we know that when he shall appear, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.

Here we see in verse 2 the reality and the experience the believer enjoys right now as the sons of God. God Almighty by His grace has adopted us into His family, made us heirs of God, joint heirs with the Lord Jesus Christ. This is made known and revealed under the believer in regenerating grace when we're born of God, when we're born of His Spirit, when we're begotten of God by the word of truth. We actually experience this relationship, this loving Father and son relationship in the gospel, in the Lord Jesus Christ.

Now, I want to ask you this question. Are we? Are we? Are we really children of God? Are we? Do we really believe and trust the Lord Jesus Christ for everything in salvation? Well, if we do, and if we do, if we trust the Lord Jesus Christ for everything in salvation, then the Word of God says we are sons of God.

1 John, or rather John 1, verse 12 says, But as many as received him, that is, as many as believe him, bow to him, submit to him, and love him, to them gave he power to become, that's the right and the privilege, to become sons of God, even to them that believe on his name, which were born, neither will of flesh, nor the will of man, but they were born of God.

Are we really children of God? We are, if we really, truly believe and trust the Lord Jesus Christ for everything in salvation. Is He all our confidence, or do we trust the flesh? Do we trust in the experience that we've had in the past, or are we looking to the Lord Jesus Christ right now? The scripture said we are The true Israel, which worship God in the Spirit, rejoice in Christ Jesus and have no confidence in the flesh.

Are we sons of God? Well, we are if we trust Him. We are if we have total confidence in Him. We are if we trust His sacrifice for cleansing. Are we sons of God? Well, do we trust His sacrifice for our cleansing? Do we find our redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sin according to the riches of His grace, or are we trying to go about to put away our own sin by our own sacrifice, or are we looking to that effectual sacrifice that Christ made on Calvary's tree? Are we really sons of God? Well, do we rely upon His righteousness for our acceptance or are we busy going about to establish our own righteousness rather than submitting ourselves unto the righteousness that the Lord Jesus Christ has perfected for us and that He imputes to us?

Are we really sons of God? Well, do we love our Lord and Savior above everything else? Do we find in Him, can we say with Paul, that Christ is all and in all?

Are we sons of God? Well, if we love Him above everything else we are.

Are we really sons of God? Does the Lord Jesus Christ have all the preeminence in our daily life? Do we look to Him for everything in salvation? He's our hope, He's our rest, He's our peace, He's our righteousness, He's our redemption. Do we live for His glory or do we live for self? Who do you live for? Well, the sons of God live for His glory. They say with Paul, God forbid I should glory save in the cross of the Lord Jesus Christ.

The believer can say and the son of God can say with Job, though he slay me yet, I'll trust him.

Are we sons of God? Well, if we believe Him, if we trust Him, if we rest in Him, if we look to Him, Yes, we are the sons of God.

I pray God will give us grace just to do that, to trust Him, to trust the Lord Jesus Christ, to trust His righteousness for forgiveness, to trust His blood for cleansing.

I pray that God will give us grace to trust Him and we can say with confidence and boldly say, according to the Word of God, yes, now are we the sons of God.

And may God give us the full assurance of faith that we truly are sons of God.

When we're depressed and blue, I hope God will bring this text to your mind. Yes, now we are the sons of God.

When temptation assails us, I hope God will remind us that yes, now are we sons of God.

When the world assaults us for the gospel of God's free grace, may God give us a scripture and say now, are we sons of God?
Tom Harding
About Tom Harding
Tom Harding is pastor of Zebulon Grace Church located at 6088 Zebulon Highway, Pikeville, Kentucky 41501. You may also contact him by telephone at (606) 631-9053, or e-mail taharding@mikrotec.com. The website address is www.henrytmahan.com.

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