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"I'm Not Good Enough"

Darin Weiss • February, 26 2020 • Video & Audio
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Darin Weiss • February, 26 2020
Some of us have that voice of criticism. Maybe when you were a kid, you were told, "you're not good enough", "you'll never be good enough", "why can't you be more like your sister"; and that has so much power over you, any time you go to do something powerful in your life, you can't get that voice out of your head.

This past Wednesday, guest pastor Darin Weiss discussed how our fear of criticism, our fear of rejection, and our fear of not living up, gets in the way of our Christian walk.

We begin to look to other things in order to fill us; to make us acceptable. The scariest thing about those things that we hold on to, that we think make us acceptable, is that they don't work; they don't matter! We could be living for things that one day, on our deathbed, we're left thinking, "I have lived for a bunch of things that don't even matter".

It's one thing to confess Christ, that He lived for us, He died for us, He rose from the dead for us; but it's another thing to understand how that applies to our life on a daily basis.

In Darin Weiss's sermon titled "I'm Not Good Enough," the primary theological topic addressed is the concept of grace and acceptance in the believer's identity in Christ. Weiss argues that many people, haunted by voices of inadequacy from past experiences or criticisms, seek validation through worldly achievements, failing to recognize that such pursuits are ultimately unfulfilling and inconsequential. He emphasizes that the Gospel offers a transformative truth: believers are declared righteous in Christ, not based on their performance but through Jesus's sacrificial work. Key Scriptures referenced include passages highlighting God's acceptance of believers (e.g., John 1:12 and Romans 5:1), which affirm that one's identity as a child of God supersedes any worldly measures of worthiness. The practical significance lies in the freedom this realization brings; believers are encouraged to live in the confidence of their identity in Christ, rather than succumbing to the lies of inadequacy, thereby fostering a deeper relationship with God.

Key Quotes

“We begin to look to other things in order to sort of fill us and to make us acceptable.”

“If you and I can actually get to this place where we understand that in the gospel... you are my son, you are my daughter, in whom I am well pleased.”

“You can rest in my presence. You don't have to measure up anymore.”

“The great news about the gospel is, is that I'm not good enough... but because of what Jesus did for me.”

What does the Bible say about being good enough?

The Bible teaches that we are not good enough on our own, but through faith in Christ, we are made acceptable to God.

Scripture assures us that on our own, no one is good enough to meet God's perfect standard. Romans 3:23 states, 'for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.' This underscores our inherent inability to achieve righteousness through our own efforts. However, the good news of the gospel is that we are granted free righteousness through faith in Jesus Christ. In believing in Him, we receive His perfect righteousness as our own, making us acceptable to God despite our imperfections. Ephesians 1:6 reminds us that we are 'blessed in the Beloved,' affirming our status as beloved children of God.

Romans 3:23, Ephesians 1:6

How do we know the doctrine of free righteousness is true?

We know the doctrine of free righteousness is true through the teachings of Scripture and the work of Christ on the cross.

The doctrine of free righteousness, or justification by faith, is rooted in the biblical narrative that emphasizes the sufficiency of Christ's sacrifice. This is illustrated in Romans 5:1, which states, 'Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.' This peace comes from the realization that our standing before God is not based on our merits but entirely on Christ's finished work. By trusting in Jesus, we are granted His righteousness, as affirmed in 2 Corinthians 5:21, indicating that 'for our sake, He made Him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in Him we might become the righteousness of God.' This truth provides profound assurance of our standing before God.

Romans 5:1, 2 Corinthians 5:21

Why is understanding our acceptance in Christ important for Christians?

Understanding our acceptance in Christ is crucial because it frees us from striving for approval and allows us to live in the fullness of God's grace.

For Christians, understanding one's acceptance in Christ is essential for growth in faith and spiritual maturity. This acceptance, rooted in the truth that we are justified by Christ's work and not our own, liberates us from the burdens of performance and perfectionism. Instead of living under the condemnation of our shortcomings, Christians can embrace their identity as children of God, as stated in Romans 8:1, 'There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.' This profound truth encourages believers to walk boldly in their faith, to experience the joy and peace that comes from being truly accepted by God. Recognizing that we are 'not good enough' in ourselves helps us to rest in the completeness of Jesus' sacrifice and assures us of our position before God.

Romans 8:1

Sermon Transcript

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If your boss were to call you
in for an evaluation, and you're going to sit down, let's just
kind of go over things. And let's talk about what's working, what's
not working, that kind of thing. And if he or she has like, let's
say, five things. He says, you're doing just an
amazing job at this. You are incredible at this. You're
so gifted in this area. You're doing an amazing job at
this. I want you to keep up the good work. And he's got five things. And there's
one thing, though. There's one thing I kind of want
you to work on. There's one thing I think you
could probably do better at. As soon as they bring up that
one thing, that you could be better at, suddenly his whole
list of five things, 10 things, might as well be a hundred things,
suddenly are muted out. Some of us have like that voice
of like criticism. Like maybe when you were a kid,
right? You were told you're not good
enough. You'll never be good enough.
Why can't you just be more like your sister? Why can't you be
more like your brother? Why can't you be better? And
then that has had so much power over you that any time that you
go to do something powerful in your life, you can't get that
voice out of your head. That fear of inadequacy, of I'm
not quite good enough, I'm not acceptable, That's a fear of
not being righteous. That I have a fear that I'm not
quite right. We begin to look to other things
in order to sort of fill us and to make us acceptable. We say,
hey, if I were to get this, if I were to get that, if I were
to do this, what have you, fill in the blank. We look to our
past. We look to achievements, money, jobs, relationships, just
all, anything really in this world we can look to and we say,
hey, this is what will make me acceptable. The scariest thing,
one of the scariest things I should say, about those things that
we hold on to, that we think make us acceptable, they don't
work and they don't matter. And it means that you and I,
in here tonight, could be living for things that one day you and
I could find ourselves on our deathbed thinking to ourselves,
I have lived for a bunch of things that don't even matter. It's very easy for us to, in
one moment, confess Christ. and believe that Jesus, He lived
for us, He died for us, He rose from the dead for us, but not
really understanding how that applies to my life on a daily
basis. And I can understand that he
objectively, right, did something for me. Like 2,000 years ago,
Jesus did come out of heaven and into time. He came from heaven
to earth, out of eternity, into time, and he died on the cross
for my sins. And I can believe that. And then
oftentimes, people just go right back Rather than living like
a child of the one true King, in all the freedom that that
brings, in the status that that brings, instead we continue to
live like orphans, slaves. Slaves to our past, holding on
to things that don't really matter. But if you and I can actually
get to this place where we understand that in the gospel, Not just
the day that maybe you believed and you received eternal life
or what have you, but if you like right here and right now
can understand that the fact that Jesus died for your sins,
that that means that you can hear the voice of God over your
life, over your heart, like right here and right now where God
can say over you, you are my son, you are my daughter, in
whom I am well pleased. I am well pleased with you. You
are acceptable. You are accepted. You are approved. You are good enough. Come into
my presence. I want to be with you. You can
rest. You can rest in my presence.
You don't have to measure up anymore. You don't have to try
to be good enough anymore. And the great news about the
gospel is, is that I'm not good enough. You and I aren't good
enough. The reason why we struggle with rightness is because we're
not right. But the gospel teaches us that
there is free righteousness. That in believing in Christ,
I am good enough, not because of what I've done or what I haven't
done, but because of what Jesus did for me.

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