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If he is a liar, a talebearer, a railer, a flatterer or a jester

Matthew 15
John Newton • January, 7 2010 • Audio
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The sermon titled "If he is a liar, a talebearer, a railer, a flatterer or a jester" by John Newton addresses the theological topic of the relationship between a believer's speech and the evidence of grace in their heart. Newton argues that a true believer's speech reflects their heart's condition, as expressed in Matthew 15, where it is stated that the mouth speaks from the abundance of the heart. He emphasizes the importance of holding one's tongue, citing James 1:26, which underscores that religion without control over one’s speech is worthless. The practical significance of this doctrine is profound, as it challenges individuals to examine their own speech as a reflection of their faith and relationship with God, pointing to the necessity of grace to enable believers to speak truthfully, lovingly, and purely.

Key Quotes

“Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.”

“If anyone considers himself religious, and yet does not keep a tight bridle on his tongue, he deceives himself, and his religion is worthless.”

“Where saving grace is in the heart, the tongue will be bridled by the law of truth.”

“If he is a liar, a tale-bearer, a railer, a flatterer, or a jester, then, whatever other good qualities he may seem to possess, his speech betrays him.”

What does the Bible say about the influence of grace on our speech?

The Bible teaches that grace influences our speech, as indicated in James 1:26, stating that if we do not bridle our tongues, our religion is worthless.

According to biblical teaching, the influence of grace on our speech is evident in how believers communicate. In James 1:26, it is asserted that if anyone thinks they are religious but does not control their tongue, they are deceiving themselves. This highlights that an essential evidence of a transformed heart is the way one speaks. Grace acts as a restraining force, compelling believers to avoid careless or flippant discourse about God, themselves, and others. When one's heart has genuinely experienced the grace of God, their speech will reflect a reverence and acknowledgment of divine authority and holiness.

James 1:26

Why is controlling our speech important for Christians?

Controlling our speech is crucial for Christians as it reflects the sincerity of our faith and our understanding of God's holiness.

The importance of controlling our speech cannot be overstated in the Christian life. It serves as both a measure and manifestation of genuine faith. As articulated in the sermon, out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks; thus, the nature of our conversations reveals our inner spiritual state. Christians are called to exhibit honor and respect toward God and others in their conversations. A failure to manage our tongues often betrays an underlying lack of true faith and understanding of God's holiness and mercy. Furthermore, it demonstrates a disregard for the commands to speak truthfully and lovingly, as outlined in Ephesians 4:29, which admonishes believers not to let any unwholesome talk come out of their mouths.

Ephesians 4:29, Matthew 15

How does grace teach us about truth in our speech?

Grace teaches us to speak the truth from our hearts, as God is a God of truth and desires His followers to reflect this attribute.

Grace instills within believers a profound commitment to truthfulness in their speech, grounded in the character of God. The sermon emphasizes that those who genuinely experience God's grace will not only refrain from lying but will also actively embrace the truth. This is aligned with 1 Peter 3:10, which states that whoever wants to love life and see good days must keep their tongue from evil and their lips from deceitful speech. A heart transformed by grace cannot tolerate dishonesty, as God is inherently truthful, and His children are called to emulate this aspect of His character. Thus, where grace reigns, so does a commitment to speak the truth in love.

1 Peter 3:10

What is the significance of love in how Christians speak to others?

Love is fundamental in Christian speech, guiding us to speak kindly and respectfully, in alignment with the golden rule.

In Christian ethics, love serves as a cornerstone for how believers are to communicate with others. The sermon outlines that love restrains us from speaking ill or harshly of our neighbors and encourages us to embrace kindness and compassion. This is rooted in the principle of the golden rule found in Matthew 7:12, which instructs individuals to treat others as they wish to be treated. When love governs our speech, it fosters an environment of mutual respect and understanding, leading believers to uphold the integrity of their words. Thus, every utterance becomes an opportunity to reflect the heart of Christ and to embody the love He has shown us.

Matthew 7:12

Sermon Transcript

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If he is a liar, a tale-bearer, a railer, a flatterer, or a jester. By John Newton

There is perhaps no one test or proof of the reality of a work of grace upon the heart more simple, clear, and infallible than the general tenor of our speech, for our Lord's aphorism is of certain and universal application that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.

To the same purpose, the Apostle James proposes to all who make a profession of the gospel a searching criterion of their sincerity, when he says, If anyone considers himself religious, and yet does not keep a tight bridle on his tongue, he deceives himself, and his religion is worthless.

James supposes that the grace of God in a true believer will check the evils of the heart and prevent them from breaking out by the tongue. The grace of God will necessarily influence and govern the tongues of those who partake of it in what they say when they speak of God, of themselves, and of or to their fellow creatures.

having seen a glimpse of the holiness and majesty, the glory and the grace of the great God with whom they have to do, their hearts are impressed with reverence, and therefore there is a seriousness in their language. They cannot speak lightly of God or of His ways,

One would suppose that no person, who even but seems to be pious, can directly and expressly profane his glorious name. But there is a careless and flippant manner of speaking of the great God, which is very disgusting and very suspicious.

Likewise, the hearts of believers teach their mouths to speak honorably of God under all their affliction and crosses, acknowledging the wisdom and mercy of His painful dispensations. And, if an impatient word escapes them, it grieves and humbles them, as quite unfitting to their situation as His creatures, and especially as sinful creatures, who have always reason to acknowledge that it is of the Lord's mercy alone that they are not wholly consumed.

When they speak of themselves, Their tongues are bridled and restrained from boasting. They speak as befits poor and worthy creatures, because they feel themselves to be such. In what they say, either of their comforts or their sorrows, sincerity dictates a simplicity which cannot be easily counterfeited.

In what they say, of or to others, the tongues of believers are bridled by a heartfelt regard to truth, love, and purity. Where saving grace is in the heart, the tongue will be bridled by the law of truth. It is grievous to see how nearly and readily some professors will venture upon the borders of a lie. either to defend their own conduct, to avoid some inconvenience, to procure a supposed advantage, or sometimes merely to embellish a story.

Where instances of this kind are frequent, I hardly know a fouler blot in profession, or which can give a more just warrant to fear, that such professors know nothing aright, either of God or themselves. The Lord is a God of truth, and He teaches His servants to hate and abhor lying, and to speak the truth from their hearts.

I may add, likewise, with regard to promises, that the person whose simple word may not be safely depended upon scarcely deserves the name of a Christian.

Where grace is in the heart, the tongue will likewise be bridled by the law of love. If we love our neighbor, can we lightly speak evil of him, magnify his failings, or use provoking or insulting language to him? Love thinks no evil, but bears, hopes, and endures. Love acts by the golden rule, to do unto others what you would like them to do unto you. Those who are under the influence of Christian love will be gentle and compassionate, disposed to make the most favorable allowances, and of course their tongues will be restrained from the language of malevolence, harsh censure, and slander, which are as familiar to us as our mother tongue.

until we are made partakers of the grace of God. The tongue is also bridled by a regard to purity agreeable to the precepts. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk, or coarse joking. Ephesians 4.29 Ephesians 5.4 Grace has taught believers to hate these things. How then can their tongue speak of them?

There are false professors, indeed, who can suit their language to their company. when with the people of God they can talk very seriously, but at other times they are well pleased to join in vain, frothy, and evil conversation, but this double-mindedness is of itself sufficient to discredit all their pretenses to a pious character.

Upon the whole, though, perfection is not to be expected, though true believers may, on some occasions, speak rashly and have great cause for humiliation, watchfulness, and prayer with respect to the government of their tongues. Yet Scripture authorizes this conclusion, that if the tongue is frequently without a bridle, if it may be observed that a person often speaks lightly of God, and of divine things, proudly of himself, and harshly of his fellow-creatures. If he is a liar, a tale-bearer, a railer, a flatterer, or a jester, then, whatever other good qualities he may seem to possess, his speech betrays him, he deceives himself, and his religion is worthless.

Let us think of these things, and entreat the Lord to cast the salt of His grace into the fountain of our hearts, that the streams of our conversation may be wholesome.
John Newton
About John Newton
John Newton (1725-1807) was an English Anglican clergyman, staunch Calvinist, and abolitionist, most widely known for authoring the hymn Amazing Grace.
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