You can know if you are one of God's elect by examining your faith in Christ and your reliance on Him for salvation.
To determine if you are among God's elect, consider your faith in the Lord Jesus Christ: Is He your sole hope for salvation? Do you recognize that your worthiness before God is based entirely on His grace through Christ? The evidence of being chosen by God is reflected in a heart that trusts in Jesus for wisdom, righteousness, sanctification, and redemption. As the Apostle Paul expressed, all things become as loss for the excellency of knowing Christ. If you find yourself resting completely in Him for salvation, this points to the reality of the election that took place before the foundation of the world.
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