How can we avoid strife in Christian discussions?

In 2 Timothy 2:24-25, it is instructed that the servant of the Lord must not strive but be gentle, able to teach, and patient. By adhering to these principles, Christians can engage in discussions that build up rather than tear down. It is essential to keep the focus on Christ and the gospel rather than getting caught up in trivial matters and debates that do not promote understanding or growth in faith. Striving over words, or becoming entangled in profane and vain discussions, detracts from the essential message of the Bible—Christ and Him crucified. Instead, Christians are called to endeavor for unity and peace in the spirit, as detailed in Ephesians 4:1-6, always aiming to reflect Christ's grace and love.