You can know you are part of God's elect if you have faith in Christ and demonstrate love for God and others.
The assurance of being part of God's elect is tied to the internal work of the Holy Spirit in a believer's life. According to Romans 8:28-30, the elect are those who have been foreknown, predestined, called, justified, and glorified by God. If someone exhibits a genuine faith in Jesus Christ, an ongoing love for God, and a desire to obey His commandments, these can be indicators of belonging to God's chosen people. Additionally, the faithful confession of one's sinful state and reliance on the grace of God further affirms one’s membership in the elect, reinforcing the understanding that salvation and assurance ultimately come from God's sovereign choice, not individual merit or effort.
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