It is important to put Jesus above family because He taught that loving Him supremely is essential for true discipleship (Luke 14:26).
In Luke 14:26, Jesus states that anyone who does not hate his family in comparison to his love for Him cannot be His disciple. This provocative language indicates that the allegiance to Christ must supersede all earthly relationships. It does not mean literal hatred; rather, it calls for prioritizing Jesus above even those we love most dearly. If family ties impede our obedience to Christ or lead us away from His commands, our love for Him must prevail. This principle is crucial in recognizing that true discipleship involves radical commitment and unconditional following, prioritizing Christ as Lord over all aspects of life.
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