My Beloved is Mine, and I am His

Q: What does the Bible say about assurance of salvation?

The Bible declares that assurance of salvation is rooted in faith in Christ, not in our feelings or actions. The assurance of salvation is defined in Scripture as a confident belief that one is in a right relationship with God through Jesus Christ. This assurance does not rely on our fluctuating emotions or actions, but solely on faith in Christ's finished work. As stated in Song of Solomon 2:16, 'My beloved is mine and I am his,' which reflects the believer's identity found in Christ. The Apostle Paul encourages us to pursue the 'full assurance of faith,' as our assurance rests on Christ alone, who is our mediator sitting at God's right hand.

Q: How do we know our faith is genuine?

Genuine faith is evidenced by love for Christ and trust in His work for our salvation. A true indication of genuine faith is the believer's love for Jesus Christ. According to 1 John 4:19, 'We love Him because He first loved us.' This love is not self-generated, but a response to the recognition of Christ's unmatched love and grace bestowed upon us. Additionally, our faith rests on the assurance that Christ, as our righteousness, is sufficient for our salvation. We look to His character and sacrifice rather than our actions or feelings for confirmation of our faith. As believers, we affirm, 'My beloved is mine and I am his,' illustrating the intimate relationship between Christ and His followers.

Q: Why is fellowship with Christ important for Christians?

Fellowship with Christ provides spiritual nourishment and assurance to believers. Fellowship with Christ is crucial for Christians as it nourishes our soul and strengthens our assurance in Him. As noted in Song of Solomon 2:16, 'He feedeth among the lilies,' indicating that Christ reveals Himself and sustains us in the community of believers. This fellowship is vital for experiencing the fullness of joy and assurance in our relationship with Him. When believers gather in His name, they partake in the spiritual means of grace that He employs to feed, comfort, and guide them. The communal aspect of faith aids in maintaining our focus on Christ and enriches our spiritual journey.

Q: What should I do when I feel distant from God?

In times of distance from God, seek Him through prayer, scripture, and the company of fellow believers. Feelings of distance from God are common in the Christian experience, often referred to as spiritual valleys. The biblical counsel is to actively seek Christ through prayer, immersion in scripture, and fellowship with other believers. As expressed in Song of Solomon 2:17, 'Turn, my beloved,' believers are encouraged to call upon God by seeking His presence earnestly. Remembering the truth of His unfailing love and unchanging nature, despite our feelings, allows us to restore our focus on Him. Actively immersing ourselves in the means of grace helps rekindle that sense of communion and assurance in our relationship with Christ.

Chapter 2. The Song of Solomon,
Chapter 2, verse 16. I've been reading this over and
over and over again this week, and I've come to the conclusion
that these have got to be the happiest words in the Bible. My beloved is mine. and I am his, he feedeth among
the lilies. Those words reflect a heart full
of peace, assurance, contentment, joy, happiness. My beloved is
mine, and I am his, and he feedeth among the lilies. And it seems
so strange that those happy, happy words should be followed
in the very next verse with a cloud. The next verse seems to blot
out the sun. It seems to be a cloud that just
comes right over at noonday, as it were, and just turns the
whole sky into darkness until the daybreak and the shadows
flee away. Turn, my beloved. and be thou
like a roe or a young heart upon the mountains of Betha. Now looking
at that, I think the text probably is intended by God the Holy Spirit
to reflect a state of mind with which many of you, myself certainly,
are familiar. You don't doubt your salvation. You know upon good grounds, on
the grounds of this This and this alone. Because you trust
Christ, you know he's yours. Because you trust him, nothing
else. I wish I could make everybody
hear that. This is the grounds of our assurance. I trust Christ, therefore I can
say my beloved is mine and I am his. I don't doubt that. But
my soul doesn't always feel nearness to him. I don't always feed with
him and upon him. You are in your heart assured
that you have a vital saving interest in Christ, but you don't
sense his left hand under your head and his right hand embracing
you all the time. There are times when the believer
sings in tenor and bass at the same time. We sing with delight
and with joy, blessed assurance Jesus is mine. Oh, what a foretaste
of glory divine, heir of salvation, purchased of God, born of his
spirit, washed in his blood. And yet we turn right around
and sing, as Judy just did, how tedious and tasteless the hours
when Jesus no longer I see, sweet prospects, sweet birds and sweet
flowers have all lost their sweetness to me. It may be, I don't know, it may
be that there are some of God's saints who never lose sight of
the Savior's face, whose communion with him is always undisturbed. There may be some who always
walk continually on the mountaintops with him, maybe so. I'm not sure
that such persons exist, but I wouldn't be so bold as to say
they don't. But those believers with whom I am most intimate
and familiar have a different experience. that I know who always
boast of their constant peace and satisfaction and delight,
who boast of always walking on the mountaintops, are not the
most reliable folks. They're not the kind of folks
I'd want to lean on very much. But for myself, speaking from
my own heart's experience, I've always had a mixture of joy and
sorrow. Every year of my life has its
wintertime as well as its summer. Every day has its night. I've
seen the clear shining of the sun of righteousness and walked
in the blessed, blessed joy of it. And I felt the heavy, heavy
rains and the storms and walked in the fear of it. I've walked
in the warm breezes of summer evening and I've made my way
through the snowy blizzards of winter night. And I expect many
of you are the same. We're kind of like the oak tree,
but the sap's always there, but not the leaves. We go through
terrible, terrible seasons of not seeing his face, not knowing
the kisses of his mouth, and not knowing the warm embrace
of his grace. We're not always rejoicing. We
have our downs as well as our ups, our valleys as well as our
mountains, Sometimes we're in heaviness through manifold trials,
grieved by the fact that our fellowship with Christ is not
always full, not always clear, not always intimate and sweet. Grieved by it, but that's just
the way it is. Rex, the Lord Jesus ought to
be constantly our soul's rapturous delight. He ought to be, ought
to be. And it's our fault when He's
not. Not His, it's our fault. But the fact is, He's not always. We ought to always rejoice in
the Lord. We ought to always walk in the
joy, the joy of His presence. But we don't. That's the fact.
At times we have to seek Him. crying, oh, that I knew where
I might find him. Now, if I understand it correctly,
that's the sense of this text here in the Song of Solomon,
chapter 2, verses 16 and 17. It is both a song of joy and
a song of sorrow, the sweet song of assurance and yet an earnest
longing for fellowship and communion with Christ. Does that make sense
to you? I believe that's exactly what we see here. This is the
thing I want you to see this evening. Though we may experience
times of spiritual trial, when our fellowship and communion
with Christ is broken, there is no reason for our assurance
of acceptance with God in him. Our assurance that my beloved
is mine and I am his to be interrupted at all. I've heard fellows talk
about assurance and they talk about assurance in such a way
as to say, You know, if you're not walking with Him in just
confident joy and peace and contentment, then you don't have any assurance.
That's false assurance. That's not it. Our assurance
does not depend on us, but Him. Now, we change, but He doesn't.
Assurance is based upon Christ's finished work for us. Fellowship
and communion with Christ may vary greatly by our daily experiences. I don't always enjoy my wife's
company. I was away from her a couple
of days this week, but I always enjoy the assurance of her love.
I don't have any question about that. I'm not worried about somebody
else being over here taking my place when I'm gone. I'm just
confident the woman loves me. And though I do not see her face
and do not feel her embrace, I enjoy the blessed assurance
of that relationship. And that's not near as certain
and sure and stable as this. My Lord, for reasons wise, good,
and gracious. Because of my need will often
hide his face from me, but he never forsakes me. You got that? He often appears not to hear
me, but he always does. He often appears not to watch
over me, but he always does. And the reason he appears not
to hear me, he appears not to watch over me, is that he might
draw out my heart after him so that I might be maintained in
love for him. Now this evening I want us to
look at three things. The first will be the most important.
First, I want to show you that it is possible and profitable. for believers to enjoy the assurance
of salvation, a personal interest in, yes, the possession of the
Lord Jesus Christ. It's profitable and it's possible
for believers to walk in the assurance. Paul puts it this
way, the full assurance of faith. Now, I don't suggest that every
believer does. I know better. I know better. Peter, sometimes,
Had some problems with that. Just read the Gospels, you'll
see it. Paul appears at times to have had problems with that.
Some folks say they try to get everything fit into a box, you
know, well, if you don't, doubt you're damned. Another fellow
says if you do doubt you're damned. Well, sometimes believers doubt, sometimes
they don't. Sometimes believers walk as they
ought with confident faith, and sometimes they don't. But I do
know this, every believer can and should enjoy the blessed
assurance of a saving interest in Christ. These are the words
of confident faith and blessed assurance. My beloved is mine. And I'm his. Right now, though
the shadow is between us and though he hides his face, right
now, my beloved is mine and I am his. Most people, you see, look
in the wrong places for assurance. They seek it on the wrong grounds. People seek assurance either
by remembering something, or feeling something, or doing something. That's almost always where folks
look to it. You say, how do you know that
you're a believer? Well, I remember. When I was
a boy, when I was a, young man when I was an older man. I remember
yesterday or I remember this morning. If you've got to look
back to this morning for assurance, you're looking at the wrong place.
It's not a remembrance of some experience we've had. It's not
a remembrance of something that happened to us yesterday. Our
assurance is sitting on the right hand of God. He is God himself
sitting on his throne, Jesus Christ, the God-man, our mediator.
He's our assurance. Other folks say, they say, well,
you know what? I feel so close to the Lord. I've just had such
a change in my life. I just, I feel like I walk with
him all the time. Your feeling's not it, Lindsay.
That's not it. Feelings come and feelings go
and feelings are deceiving. I trust the living word of God,
naught else is worth believing. Other folks say, well, I'm confident
that I'm the Lord because my life has been so changed and
now I serve him and I do this and I do, Oh, no, that's not
it. That's not it. If you want assurance,
if you want to walk before God, continually, while you're sitting
here in his house, or Oscar, when you're out there on your
tractor planting your tobacco, or you're sitting in your living
room, or you're sitting in the funeral parlor, if you want to walk before
God with a peace that he's yours, quit looking to yourself. Look
to him. Look to him. Look not to your
experience, but to His expiation. Not to your repentance, but to
His ransom. Not to your faith, but to His
faithfulness. Not to your works, but to His
worth and His works. Look not to your feelings, but
to His fullness. Look not to your prayers, but
to His promises and His prayers, who sits yonder on the right
hand of the Majesty on high. Look not to your righteousness,
but to Christ the Lord our righteousness. Look to Christ alone. Hold your
hands here in Song of Solomon and turn to Colossians 2. It's
a text of scripture I frequently quote, but I want you to read
it. And at your leisure, read it in its context. Paul is urging these saints at
Colossae to let no one beguile them with the subtleness of vain
philosophy and religious tradition. And he says to them as they make
their way through this world. And what he says to them, Bob
Pontius says to you and he says to me. Look what he says, Colossians
2 verse 6. As you have therefore received
Christ Jesus the Lord. As you have received him. How
have you received him? I came to Christ empty-handed,
filthy. polluted, guilty, depraved, lost,
helpless, and dead. I didn't have anything. I didn't
have anything. Nothing in my hands I bring,
simply to thy cross I cling. Naked come to thee for dress,
helpless look to thee for grace. How did you come to him? That's
how you came to him, isn't it? Don't ever outgrow it. Don't,
if you grow a hair above that, you got too big. As you have
received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him. Just have
him. Lord, I trust you for everything. For everything. Everything. I
trust you for everything God requires of me. I trust you for
righteousness and redemption. I trust you for my next breath.
I trust you! That's all. That's where assurance
is. Now then, the Lord Jesus says,
He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved. He that believeth
not shall be damned. I believe it. That's all. That's all. Mark these words
in this text, my beloved. Will you delight to call Christ
your beloved? Now, I can almost hear somebody
start sitting at the table now and trying to talk pious and
use this kind of language. I'm not talking about that, I'm
talking about in your heart. My beloved, my beloved. Certainly,
he should be beloved by you. and by me, who's done so much
for us. Whoever lavished such gifts upon
us, who's ever shown us such indescribable love. Indeed, if
you do not love him, now you listen to me, if you don't love
him, you're lost, you don't know him. You don't know him. If any
man loved not the Lord Jesus Christ, Paul said, let him be
damned. It is not our love for Him that gives us a saving interest
in Him. It's faith in Him. But faith
in Him loves Him. Believers love the Son of God.
All who are redeemed by His precious blood and saved by His matchless
grace can say with the Apostle John, we love Him because He
first loved us. Now, I don't want you to be presumptuous. I don't want to be presumptuous.
But if you know Him, you love Him. If you know the Lord Jesus
Christ, call him in your soul, my beloved. Look at him that
way. A man and woman married to one
another have special terms of endearment with which they speak
to one another in private that they never use in public. And
I don't suggest, as I mentioned earlier, that you use these words
with an air of piety That's the last thing I suggest. What I
am saying is in your soul, speak to Christ as your beloved. Call Him such. He deserves such
a title. Child of God, He redeemed you
with His blood, adopted you into His family, saved you by His
grace, keeps you in His love, for He loved you with an everlasting
love. There was a time when he became the beloved one of your
heart. He came and made himself known
to you and conquered your heart by the revelation of himself
so that you could not resist loving him. And it's true today
more than ever. We do love him. Oh my Lord, it's
true. Peter spoke the truth. He spoke
the absolute truth. Embarrassed as he was to say
it, he spoke the absolute truth. Humbled and broken as he was
to say it. I can almost see the quiver in
his lips and the tears in his eyes and the shake in his voice
as he said, Lord, you know everything. You know everything. You know
that I love you. Because it's just true. It's
just true. Virgin said, every heart that's
been renewed by sovereign grace takes Jesus Christ to be the
chief object of its love. My beloved is mine. Is he or
is he not your beloved? Is he or is he not? My beloved
is mine and I'm his. I'm his because In eternity,
he looked on me and said, I love him freely. He chose me, and
he purchased me with his blood. Like Hosea said to Gomorrah,
I bought you with the silver of my sweat and the gold of my
blood, and you're mine. And he called me by the power
of his irresistible grace. And he's mine. by the most deliberate, calculated, willful choice I've
ever made. Not just the choice I made 30
years ago, the choice I make right now, willfully, deliberately,
no matter what I have to give up for it. or not choosing to
be mine. That's exactly right. Say, well,
you folks don't believe that. Oh, we're the only ones who do.
Believers constrained by his love are overcome in their hearts
and cannot resist choosing him as the highest object of their
affection. Are you a believer? If so, then
Christ is yours and you're his. You're his sheep of his pasture.
Partners of his love, members of his body, branches of this
vine, you belong to him. I'm his. Totally, unreservedly yours. And Lord, that means you can do with me whatever you
will. I'm yours. I'm yours. Spoke to Bob earlier this morning,
chatted with him a little bit, and he said, I'm not concerned
about the surges, I'm in the Lord's hands. He can do what
he will. That's what I'm talking about. He can do with me what
he will. And I'm glad for him to do with
me what he will. Are you? I'm his. How can you
have such assurance as this? How can you speak like that?
Peter says, sanctify the Lord God in your hearts and be ready
always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason
of the hope that's in you. Well, preacher, how can you speak
like this? How can anyone speak like this
with such confidence and deliberate forthrightness on this reason
or on this grounds? He's revealed himself in me. And because he has revealed himself
in me, I rest my soul on him alone. I trust Christ alone. I keep my flesh, just like yours,
I keep wanting to find something in me. Surely I can get something
here that's mine I can hold on to. I can find some feeling or
some work or some deed or some thought, some imagination, some
aspiration and say, now there, there, there, I've got something
I can hold on to. Oh, when you find it, throw it
away like you had hold of a hot piece of iron. I cast my soul
on Christ alone, nothing else. And now, just as in the past,
I've not yet been moved away from the hope of the gospel.
Paul said, I'll present you perfect in Christ if you continue in
the faith grounded and settled and be not moved away from the
hope of the gospel. This is it. How can you say my
beloved is mine and I am his? Because it's the truth. I love him. I love him. Now then,
here's the second thing. It will be wise for us to know
where Christ is. and where he makes himself known. If a woman wants a happy marriage,
she will be wise to know her husband, know his habits and his ways,
and put herself in his way. You'd be wise to do that. I watched
Bobby and Judy, and she has a chance to, she just gets out and rides
in the hot sun on the side of that tractor with him. Because
she loves him, puts herself in his way. And if you want a happy
marriage, you find out who you're married to. Find out his habits,
find out his ways, and put yourself in his way. She says, my beloved
is mine, I'm his. Now, where is he? Where can I walk with him? Where
will he be this morning? Where will he be tonight? He feedeth among the lilies. I suppose there's a sense in
which you could say he feeds himself for there he takes delight
in that which is the travail of his soul which he sees with
satisfaction. But I'm certain the text means
that he feeds his saints. And He feeds among the lilies. That is, He feeds among the saints
of God in the house of God. He comes here and this is where
He feeds His sheep. He feeds His saints with the
ordinances of the gospel as we sing His praise, as we worship
His name, as we call on Him, as we observe this blessed ordinance
of the Lord's table. He comes and feeds among the
lilies. There's something special, something special about the assembled
body of believers. Turn to 1 Corinthians chapter
3. You're familiar with that text in Matthew 18. Our Lord
said, where two or three are gathered together in my name,
there am I in the midst of them. Look here in 1 Corinthians chapter
3. The apostle Paul is talking here
about those who would disrupt, disturb, divide, destroy the
Church of God. And here he says in verse 16,
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of
God dwells in you? If any man defile the temple
of God, him shall God destroy. For the temple of God is holy,
which temple you are. Now that's not talking about
your physical body. That's not what it's talking
about. That's talking about the assembled body of believers.
When we come together, Ron, in the name of Christ, as He promised
to meet with us, gathered in His name, not the building. That's irrelevant. But when we
come together in His name, the Church of God is His temple,
and God the Holy Spirit resides here. That's what the temple
was all about. That's what it portrayed. It
portrayed this temple, which temple we now are. Oh, yeah,
there's something special about the assembly of God Saints. Folks
think without, I get along without that. Ask somebody who has to
do without it. Just ask somebody. Where does
he feed? Oh, he feeds among the lilies
of these pages. I'm not a counselor, I don't
pretend to be. I'm not a psychologist, don't want to be. But every now
and then, I meet with one of you or a preacher friend or somebody
else, a believer, going through trouble and heartache, sorrow. And they come and want some advice. What do you do, pastor? How am
I going to handle this? And this is my counsel. I give
it to you now. And when you come to me in the
middle of the night, I'll give it to you then. Bury yourself
in this book. Just bury yourself in this book. Your tendency is to walk the
floor and wring your hands and say, this is what I'm going to
do. I'm going to get out. Your tendency is to neglect the word,
neglect the worship of God, the house of God, and the people
of God. That's the worst thing to do. Bury yourself in this
book where he feeds among the lilies. And one last thing. It's the desire of every believer
to know the conscious presence and fellowship of Christ. Look
at verse 17. Until the daybreak and the shadows
flee away, Turn, my beloved. Be thou like Aurora, young heart,
upon the mountains of Bitha. For this is our night. Soon daybreak
will come. When our Lord Jesus came and
the gospel day broke forth, the shadows of the law fled away.
And when our Lord comes again and takes away this veil of flesh,
then the day shall shine brightly and we'll walk an everlasting
day. And when our Lord comes, in our night of trouble and takes
away our cloud. Then we'll walk again in the
day in the sunshine of the beams of the sun of righteousness.
The mountains which separate us from our Lord, mountains of
our making, are no trouble for him to overcome. Turn, my beloved,
be like a roe or a young heart on the mountains of Bethel. Come
home, come after me. But you'll have to do the turning. Turn to me, because I just can't
turn to you. Come to me. Oh, God, come to
me, because I just try as I will. I can't come to you. The mountains
are too high for me to overcome. I can't tear them down. But that's no trouble to you.
So turn, my beloved. Come across the mountains like
a roe or a young heart. As the heart panteth after the
water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, oh my God. Now come to us as we break this
bread and drink this wine in remembrance of our Savior. Blessed
Savior, turn and come skipping across the mountains to your
beloved. Amen. Linda, you come lead us in a
hymn, please.

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What does the Bible say about assurance of salvation?

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Why is fellowship with Christ important for Christians?

What should I do when I feel distant from God?

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What should I do when I feel distant from God?

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